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rm_whatsforme69 41 M
1  question
HOW TO RECOMEND SWINGING TO OTHER HALF - 8/1/2008

ANY ADVICE, WERE PRETTY OPEN MINDED AND ENJOY A GOOD SEX LIFE, BUT I, M NOT SURE IF SHE, LL GO FOR IT, IF SHE DOSE COULD YOUS RECOMEND ANYTHING FOR BEGINNERS

11 response(s), 13 votes
rm_RyNo11026 39 M
1  question
Is it okay for the lady to keep control - 8/1/2008

Is it okay for the lady to be the one in control in the bedroom on a regular business? Not in a BDSM way, but in a the way being the one to initiate, or calling position changes.

15 response(s), 13 votes
Honeydewy 46 F
41  questions
Sex board games you'll recommend... - 8/1/2008

Hi, I'm going to host an AdultFriendFinder/PASSION gathering. Are there any board games that are good for warming up an adult-themed party? It doesn't necessarily have to be board games, it can come in other shapes and sizes or formats. Thanks! ...

11 response(s), 9 votes
rm_mattywood08 44 M
5  questions
After the 1st email exchange - 8/1/2008

You wanna get to know someone from here first before meeting them. You exchange the initial emails and then start chatting, trying to get to know one another. When is it apropriate to start talking about sexual desires, fantasies, likes and dislikes?

9 response(s), 7 votes
jonnyluvs1967 73 M
1  question
Married and Straying? - 7/31/2008

I have registered for this site because I am horny 24hrs a day and don't get what I need sexually from my wife. I love her dearly and would do anything for her, we have talked about having more sex but she just isn't willing to do more. Am I wrong to stray? I am a christian and understand what adultery is. I know it is wrong, but sex satan has power over me. I fight it everday but desire so ...

22 response(s), 22 votes
countrygirlfla 70 F
3  questions
Posts on my group page are gone??? - 7/31/2008

I am co moderator of a group on here.I have had a question asked of me that i do not know the answer to, and am requesting of people smarter than me for help.I had 7 pages of posts on the group page.The first page posts are there, but when i click pages 2 thru 7 there is nothing there, but page numbers say i have more pages of posts.Can any one tell me how to retrieve them or where they might ...

5 response(s), 8 votes
woodluv2pleseu2 58 M
88  questions
Just advice not an ad - 7/31/2008

I have been considering putting something into the magazine. I just posted it as one of my blogs. The trouble I have is which category should I place it in, in the magazine

It did wind up being a combination of three separate thoughts. It could be classified a erotic or maybe advice for men. The original intention was advice for men. So if anyone wishes to advise me I would appreciate it

12 response(s), 14 votes
ceddd 48 M
2  questions
older or mature women - 7/31/2008

My question is ......what is the different between an older lady and a mature lady?

I think I am looking for a older mature lady. Any taker?

10 response(s), 11 votes
rm_Sokasah 49 M
10  questions
Just for Ladies. - 7/31/2008

How would you get some attention when you feel horny at 11Pm while Grocery shopping and willing to get your freak on with this black guy who is passing by at the veggies section?

13 response(s), 27 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
have you ever - 7/30/2008

wanted something to happen and you got more that you bargain for? well couple years ago i went to the movies to watch the movie THE THIRTEEN GHOST, i went with some friends(3guys and 6women including myself). after the opening scence damn there were people screaming , spilling drinks, popcorn flying everywhere, guys and girlz storming out of the theatre like krazy.after the first 20 mins it was ...

10 response(s), 20 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
HELP! AdultFriendFinder GONE CRAZY! - 7/30/2008

Is anyone else have profile problems with their site? My site has gone totally haywire!

I'm getting error messages; part of my home page is missing.... Everything is lighter in color. Good Lord!

23 response(s), 22 votes
douneedmassage 42 M
3  questions
Question answered to opening photos - 7/30/2008

Thanks to everyone for their responses, curious 42425 had the solution and it worked beautifully today when a very hot woman sent some photos while I was wanking and chatting to her. I simply had to unblock my pop up windows block and walla there she was with 2 dildos it certainly helped me along!

Thanks again curious 42425

6 response(s), 10 votes
mIsta_thIcK 39 M
1  question
Black Lady fanstasy (never beein whit a black woman) - 7/30/2008

It's a kind of question.. I always had a fantasy it's to be whit a black woman , i don't know why it just makes me feel thissssssssss mutch better and i respect them so mutch they are sensual, sexy, they got the attitude love it , love their dark skin and everything that comes whit it the booty everything, but never beein whit one, and i would LOVE to find one soon..i always tought that mutch of ...

21 response(s), 41 votes
travman901 56 M
8  questions
Regrets - 7/30/2008

I know we all have regrets, but do you have one or two that are tough to get over. You don't have to say what they are. A simple yes or no will do just fine.

I will be honest and say I have. I let someone I cared about very deeply go and did not put up a fight for her. As they say hind sight is 20/20.

22 response(s), 42 votes
fathornychick 35 F
1  question
testimonials - 7/30/2008

I couldn't seem to find this in the help. Are standard members not able to leave testimonials.

12 response(s), 7 votes
tazzerman2000 59 M
3  questions
Women and bisexual guys. - 7/30/2008

Why are some women afraid or 'not into' bisexual guys? I've ran across this a number of times now where I'll intro myself to a girl who says she's open, looking to try 'new things' etc but once I tell her I'm bisexual it's so long, cya later, not into bi-guys.

Now, I AM bisexual but I definitely 'lean' more so to towards the ladies and certainly, if I'm with a woman who's not into that ...

15 response(s), 22 votes
rm_buddaluv67 49 M
8  questions
weight training - 7/30/2008

I am an active man who works out regularly (martial arts, push-ups, road biking, xc skiing). I am interested in increasing the amount of weight training in my routine. I would like to add some mass to my shoulders.

The advice I'd like is about how to avoid injury (especially at age 40) and diet. I am patient and do not expect to see results soon, but rather gradually. The idea of ...

10 response(s), 7 votes
rm_rossii_40 53 C
1  question
what's it called? - 7/29/2008

We were wondering what would you call a night of sex in a room full of naked people, some of them watching and fucking their partners only and the other half fucking everyone else? Were blown away this past week end at a sgwrs club by the spectacle in front of our eyes where babes were fucking their men's brains out, the strong smell of sex in the air, sweaty bodies all around, women asking for ...

34 response(s), 28 votes
rm_BM1S90 34 M
3  questions
Profile Question - 7/29/2008

I just have a quick question.

How does one change the "mood" at the top of their profile?

Ive been looking and cant find how to change this.

Thanks

13 response(s), 13 votes
rm_sexyvoize 47 F
14  questions
~ afraid to play ! ~ - 7/29/2008

i've got guys whom i chat with from this site asking about me being promiscuous ..

they wanna know how many guys i've met & have i had sex with all of them ..

during the course of our chat .. i've come to realise there are guys out there who are afraid to play ..

i'm surprised because this 'afraid to play' remark came from guys who are on an adult site ...

26 response(s), 42 votes
wood4fire20 45 M
6  questions
Friends with benefits - 7/29/2008

An ex of mine just recently asked me to have sex with her, "Friends with benefits" as she said. Have any of you ever done this? How risky is it?

12 response(s), 16 votes
douneedmassage 42 M
3  questions
opening photo's - 7/29/2008

Hi all, Is there anyone who could help me, I've had some hot sessions on cam stroking my cock and being helped along with some encouragement by some lovely members who have sent me photos via the send photo button on the IMC but I have been unable to open them, they come up as a jpg, very frustrating! I have tried clicking on them and right clicking on them but nothing happens!!!! I have a ...

8 response(s), 12 votes
am_just_looking 60 F
2  questions
Why do we wimp out? - 7/29/2008

I'm pretty selective about who I correspond with here, but if the vibe is right, I'm happy to meet the person and just see.

Yet I've noticed a lot of guys don't follow through.

Why is that?

I know there's no definitive answer, but just wanted to get some discussion going about it.

36 response(s), 27 votes
imalwaysready247 58 F
1  question
Any suggestions for non-latex magnums for XL? - 7/29/2008

I was chatting with someone online who says he is allergic to latex and needs magnums. I HAVENT EVER FOUND SOMETHING IN AN XL THATS NOT LATEX HAVE YOU?...

12 response(s), 12 votes
PulchyJo 35 F
51  questions
When does it get to be , not healthy? - 7/28/2008

I realize, in this day and age, there are several different fetishes, likes, dislikes, weird fantasies, extremely off the wall propositions, , but where does it "over step" the bounds between fantasies, fetishes, and just down right disgustedness. I have been reading different articles, questions and the likes on here for about 4 months now, and right when i think i've seen it all, someone comes ...

20 response(s), 21 votes
myoung32002 65 F
1  question
to give or not to give....? - 7/28/2008

OK ladies.... what about men who just love for you to go down on them but won't even lick your thigh let alone your pussy....? toss them or what?

27 response(s), 18 votes
blackhammer747 59 M
11  questions
Women only - 7/28/2008

What is the mst thoughtful thing a man can do to make your week?

14 response(s), 29 votes
rm_kellie4u2b 59 M
2  questions
why people judge - 7/28/2008

If a man likes men people look down upon them . But if a woman likes a woman people see no trouble . I have no problem how people judge me . But there are so many men in here that said that they want one thing , but they are still e-mailing someone like me. If your eyes were closed with a woman in front of you and i was in front of you could you tell the difference .

15 response(s), 19 votes
rm_19harley86 67 M
19  questions
+ or - - 7/28/2008

Are you thinking positive or negative, just because things aren't going your way?...

23 response(s), 10 votes
wickedcat2006 49 F
292  questions
your preference - 7/28/2008

which do you prefer to wear and makes u comfortable?

a boxer b brief c commando d.my wife undies

for the ladies e boxers f granny panties(girdle etc) g nice pair of panties h thong or g string i commando like most of the celebrity j my boyfriends underpants

16 response(s), 25 votes